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[Oct. 26th, 2004|11:30 pm]
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I don't really know what to think. My boyfriend has me confused once again. It's the internet. He flirts with girls on here constantly and tells them he is single. Like last night, I had talked to him, He was at a friends, drinking. I never really made a big deal out of it like i usually would have, and instead of being rude i just went to a friends house and stayed over night. Well, I get online today and a bunch of messages pop-up on yahoo, this girl saying that he told her he was single and that him and his ex broke up because she was a bitch about him hanging out with his friends and that she cheated on him. I cant handle this, he always gets pissed when i dont go out of my way to tell people online, whether they are girls or guys, that i have a boyfriend. I'm very confused, and afraid of losing him. Hes done this before and we have talked about it and about how it makes me feel and he acts like he understands. But apparently he doesnt...

Any advice would be appreciated...


[User Picture]From: persian_rose
2004-10-27 07:43 pm (UTC)
My guy use to have an online thing. You know what I did? Got on his name and made the bitch cry and made her feel like a slut. Online is the same as in real life. It's cheating.They're still real people. Sounds like your man doesn't know what he has and is afraid to commint. Tell him it's you or his pathic online life. I'm sure he'll choose reality. Don't let this go by. Be tough, because that is just a bunch of bs he's doing to you.
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[User Picture]From: _intolerable__
2005-02-05 11:01 pm (UTC)
Well..my idea, is boys are dumb. Boycot them. And, well, yeah. He's gotta choose. And if he chooses his pathetic online life, then you obviously don't mean as much to him as you should. He quite obviuosly doesn't understand how you feel, and if he does, he just doesn't care. And he also quite possibly doesn't realize what he has, like rose said. I don't think this is much help, but whatever. I hope things get better for you. And, if they don't, I don't really have a life anymore, as my girl moved to Campbell River and I only see her at school. So...I'm online a lot, and if you need someone to talk to, I'm there. My stuff is in my profile. :)

xoxo Lexx
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